• Being Flexible

    Who has good intentions but the way you feel can stop you? Planning for the week, you decide midweek you are going to clean out those rooms, those closets that need it. Even the night before it was still in your plans. Then you have a bad night of lack of sleep because your brain just won’t shut down. In the morning you seem to have a sore throat, a runny nose… and when the alarm goes off you keep hitting the snooze button on the machine. You just can’t seem to get the energy up to even get up, let alone open the closet door to clean up what’s…

  • Do You Need to Refocus?

    Well we are part way through the LENTEN season and my son was asking his children how they were going with their “giving up“ of a food or activity to help us deepen our relationship with God. We focus on extra prayers, fasting from food and certain activities and by giving to the poor. His 7-year-old son, Emmett, said it was going well but he was still deciding the best option. There were 3 things he was contemplating to do…… Oh, with a smile on her face, one of his Aunt’s suggested that sometimes we choose to take something extra on as a sacrifice like…. We all laughed at those…

  • God is With You!

    Do you get news sometimes that rocks your core? Health news, financial news, family news….. Where the world that we live in seems to sway on its axis for a few seconds. Imagine how the two astronauts felt who were only going to be away for 8 days and found out they were not going home due to technical spacecraft problems.  Now they have been gone 286 days and hopefully on their way home soon. But they are also not just in another city, they are in a space station, millions of miles away. Well, I received some disappointing news which brought tears to my eyes for a few minutes.…

  • Building Up Others With Our Words

    Are you the type of person that congratulates people when they have done well? Do you tell them when they have done a good job? Do you tell them how wonderful they are? And not just on their birthday. If only we could be like little children, who so often don’t hide their instant reactions. Who voice, without filters, what they are thinking but generally in a positive way. (If they speak with meanness, often they have seen this way of speaking somewhere…) We need to cultivate this positive, affirming manner in our families. I remember distinctly my Mum teaching me, “If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say…

  • You Are Not Forgotten

    Ever forgotten something or someone. I have. Just the other day I forgot to go to an appointment. I had to reschedule. I forget to buy grocery items when I shop, and sometimes they are the important item why I went there! Like toilet paper or laundry powder!  So back in the car I go to get them.  The saying, “ I’d lose my head if it was not screwed on” is sometimes true.  Am I just forgetful or do I have too much on my plate? Only I can answer that.  I usually write a list of things to get, and at which shop.  I know of someone who…