• Choosing Our Words Wisely

    I remember there was a boy at school that would love to play tricks on people but sometimes he went too far or he did it so often that it was not a joke anymore. It hurt. I was not one of his targets, but I saw how “his jokes” affected people and often thought that a joke must be truly funny and not at the expense of someone’s feelings. Maybe that’s why when I listen to comedians I stop listening if they “are not funny.” In Proverbs it says: Anyone who would trick someone and then say, “I was only joking” is like a fool who shoots flaming arrows…

  • God’s Timing is Perfect

    When unexpected things happen in your life it is so comforting and good to know that God cares for you and knew what was going to happen. I have a small procedure booked in with my doctor and I cannot drive for 24 hours. The day before Bruce got a phone call from an eye specialist, that he has been waiting to see, to tell him that Bruce could be seen that afternoon. I then received a phone call a few hours later from Bruce to say that the eye specialist was going to operate on his eyelid right then and there. Oh, so unexpected. He would not be able…

  • God Shows Us His Favour

    Sing praises to the Lord, O you his faithful ones,    and give thanks to his holy name.For his anger is but for a moment;    his favor is for a lifetime.Weeping may linger for the night,    but joy comes with the morning. Psalm 30:4-5 NRSV Oh, how wonderful it is to sing gratitude to our God. His favor is truly for a lifetime and if he is angry then we, his people, have pushed Him to be. But as it states here in verse 5 his anger is but for a moment. This reminds me of my Mum. She was always kind, caring, giving but if angry, we her children, pushed her too far. We…

  • Methods to De-Stress

    Tennis season has started again. Watching the beginning of the tournaments for the year, just even in the first round, it is very stressful. So many good players competing for the top spot. Trying to win a game, a set and the match. Then into the next round and it starts all over again. To win is the ultimate. Some of the people I barrack for are winning, some not. As I am watching I notice sometimes I’m getting a little anxious, my heart rate goes up and down, I’m on the edge of my seat….. I don’t know how the players stay calm and don’t get too anxious, because…

  • Go Straight to the Source

    As I cleansed my skin before going to bed I glanced in the mirror to see how the skin texture was. I had been trying to eat healthier, wear sunscreen and nourish my face more with moisturizer. You cannot stop the ageing process, but you can nourish the skin from the base up as much as possible. As I looked at myself, I was reminded of my sixteen-year-old grand-daughter’s remarks today. It made me chuckle out loud…. Charlotte was asked to clean the ottoman couch with a lint roller. Her Mum walked in to find her “lint-rolling” the cat……. She said she may as well go straight to the source!…